Let’s talk about something I get asked a lot as a licensed massage therapist in Ferndale: “Can kids or teens actually get a massage?” The short answer? Yes—but with some important rules. If you’re a parent curious about booking your child a session, or a teen wondering if you can hop on the table too, I’ve got you. Let’s break it all down so you can feel confident, safe, and fully informed.

How Old Do You Have to Be to Get a Massage in Michigan?

The Legal Basics

In Michigan, there isn’t a specific state law that says “You must be this old to get a massage.” But professional therapists (like myself) follow a mix of legal guidelines, licensing requirements, and professional ethics—plus, every spa has its own policies.

Generally:

  • Under 18? You’ll need a parent or legal guardian’s consent.
  • Under 16? You’ll likely need a parent in the room during the session.

Why These Rules Exist

This isn’t just about paperwork. It’s about protecting minors, ensuring proper boundaries, and keeping everyone safe and comfortable. And honestly, it’s also about helping kids learn body awareness in a healthy, safe environment.

When Is It Appropriate for a Minor to Get a Massage?

Common Reasons Parents Book for Their Kids

  • Sports injuries or soreness
  • Growing pains (yes, that’s real!)
  • Stress or anxiety (especially with teens juggling school, work, and social pressure)
  • Posture or tech-neck issues

Is It Safe?

Absolutely—when done by a trained professional who understands how to adapt techniques for younger bodies. We use lighter pressure, shorter session lengths, and always check in throughout.

What Parents Should Know Before Booking

1. Choose a Licensed Therapist

Make sure your LMT (Licensed Massage Therapist) is certified and has experience working with minors. Ask questions. It’s totally okay.

2. Consent Forms Are a Must

No reputable spa will touch a minor without proper signed consent. We’ll usually go over everything with you ahead of time.

3. Talk to Your Child First

Even if you think a massage sounds relaxing, make sure your kiddo is on board. This has to be their choice too.

4. Be Present for Younger Kids

For clients under 16, we usually require a parent in the room—not just for safety, but also so the child feels totally secure.

What to Expect During a Minor’s Massage Session

The Vibe: Calm, Chill, and Fully G-Rated

No candles or moody lighting here—just a warm table, a comfortable blanket, and lots of communication.

What We Focus On

  • Neck and shoulder tension
  • Legs and lower back (especially for athletes)
  • Scalp and face for anxiety relief
  • Gentle stretching or compression

How Long Should It Be?

30 minutes is usually perfect for younger clients. Teens might benefit from 45-minute sessions. We keep it short, sweet, and focused.

FAQs About Kids and Massage

Can a 12-year-old get a massage?

Yes—with parental consent and in-room supervision.

Do kids need to take off their clothes?

Nope! We adapt based on comfort. Many young clients stay fully clothed or wear gym shorts and a t-shirt.

Is it awkward?

Not at all—especially when it’s explained properly. I walk kids through every step.

Can teens get deep tissue?

Usually not necessary. Their muscles aren’t as tense or developed yet, so lighter techniques work better.

Is there an age limit for facials or spa treatments?

Some spas offer mini facials for kids or teens. Again, consent and comfort are key.

Final Thoughts: It’s All About Trust and Communication

If your child has been curious about massage, or you’re looking for ways to support their physical or mental health, this can be an amazing step. Just make sure it’s done with the right boundaries, in the right hands.

In my practice at Flawless Face & Body, we believe wellness starts early—and that includes making sure minors feel safe, respected, and empowered when they walk through our doors.

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Curious about booking a massage for your child or teen? Let’s chat and see what’s best.

Visit us at Flawless Face & Body in Ferndale, MI
Call (248) 818-3842 to book
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